August 2010
1 post
everyone
friend: want to hear my opinion? its only worth what its worth, but. i think she loves the both of you. i think she likes you, no question. but it sounds to me like theres something unresolved with him.
me: so what do i do. what would you do
friend: well what i would do has nothing to do with what you would do im sure because ive got my own issues and your action will be rooted in your own personal issues and mine, mine. so what do you do? you could tell her how you feel, hope that shes honest with you, that she'll follow through with her word and introduce the two of you and you'll live hopefully happily ever after. or you break it off now out of frustration, maybe wallow in self pity, frustration, confusion, wondering what would've happened if you'd have seen it through.
me: right.
friend: i think you'll see it through.
May 2010
1 post
Titles
I once read that our 20s are our second adolescence. I think that’s true. We’re becoming fully formed adults, making decisions that will form the foundation of the rest of our lives. We arguably look at situations more rationally than in our teens or even early twenties. We’ve been through some life experience. We have perspective.
So when it comes to relationships at, say, 25...
April 2010
1 post
Drugs and Love
Not gonna divulge too much back story - will save for separate post (out of order, but fuck it) - but long/short, I met a girl, she’s incredible; she might be the one. Dating exclusively. Alternative chick was a whack job. After lying to me about being off her period, she bled all over my sheets after a roll in the hay and remarked before leaving: “Well, I guess if you ever want to...
February 2010
3 posts
The New Girl
Alternative, sexy, funny. She’s my age. She was a sex columnist. We’ve been flirting over the net like Hanks and Ryan. Usually that’d be scary but we’ve got a handful of mutual friends. She’s very attractive and very cool and I’m very excited.
Quick question: why do crazy girls like me?
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I attract crazy women
I do. It drives me crazy. WTF?
When I expressed this to my buddy, he goes, “Dude. You attract all kinds of women. It’s the crazy ones that are more vocal.”
Kinda makes me wish I was crazy when I see a pretty girl at a party or something. I’d abandon all inhibitions and go for it. I’d also be tasered more frequently than present.
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The Model
I’ve dated a few models in “my day” (saying that makes me sound like a grandpa, right?) and on the whole, the stereotypes are true - they’re tall, skinny and vapid. This girl was different.
Let’s say I work in the creative field. She and I had crossed paths a few times before and the chemistry was palpable. I like a tall, skinny girl as much as the next guy but...
January 2010
2 posts
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The Squirter
It took courage writing that title. I swear l’m not categorizing the girl. She’s so much more than the sum of her sexual mythology. But, yeah. I dated a squirter.
We went on three dates, slept together on the first and last. The last time we saw each other, she came to my place, we shared a bottle of wine. Talked for a few hours, and started fooling around.
Now, it’s a...
Where I'm At
I’m a 26-year old guy and I’m not looking for anything serious.
We always say that, don’t we? The reality is, we’re always looking for something, whether actively or not. When we’re not seeking that special someone out like a fox to a coop, it’s when these elusive “special things” fall in our lap.
This is where I’ll keep track of my dating...